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Again, there are no surefire ways to avoid a birthmother changing her mind, but at Heart, we put those risks at a minimum.

Good communication between all the parties is a must. As one of our adoptive mothers stated, “I’d much rather know the risks up front and along the way than turn a blind eye and hope that everything just turns out fine…” The open communication we encourage at Heart, as well as the appropriate counseling we offer, helps the birthmother feel sure about the decision she makes as well as keep the family ‘in the loop’ and aware of what’s going on along the way.Īcceptance of a setback is not easy. Our adoptive family workers help parents understand that what happened was specific to their individual situation.